Ep. 8: Aggression and Defiance (Managing behaviour series)
In this episode of the "Managing Behaviour Series," I discuss strategies for dealing with defiant or aggressive behaviour in children. It’s a challenging situation for parents, but understanding and addressing these behaviours is essential.
First, I highlight that it’s important to recognise that some level of defiance is normal as children grow and become more independent. However, it’s crucial to monitor how often it occurs and whether it’s becoming a significant issue. Stress can also trigger such behaviours.
I discuss how addressing defiance and aggression involves setting clear expectations and giving effective instructions. This includes ensuring your child is listening and providing concise, distraction-free guidance. Most importantly, maintaining your composure and prioritising safety during challenging moments is key.
I also explore how building positive behaviour is essential. Fostering open communication with your child and understanding their perspective plays a vital role. Teaching essential skills like communication and problem-solving is covered in depth. Behaviour is often a form of communication, so helping your child find healthier ways to express themselves is a core focus of this episode.
For children with special needs, such as ADHD, I discuss how to tailor your approach to meet their specific challenges. Learning about their condition and considering sensory regulation techniques is explored in detail.
So, let’s dive straight into today’s episode and discover the strategies that can help you foster a healthier, more connected relationship with your child.
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