Ep. 7: Encouraging Positive Behaviour (Managing behaviour series)
Welcome back to another episode of “Parent like a Psychologist Podcast”. In this third part of my series on managing kids' behaviour, the focus is on how to encourage positive behaviour proactively.
I’ll break it down into a few important parts. I will discuss why it's really important that your child knows what you expect from them. You can't just make up rules on the spot. Be clear about what you want, and stick to it. Keep the rules short and simple, and maybe tie them to values like being kind or helpful.
Kids learn from watching you. So, if you want them to behave nicely, you should too. I will tell you the importance of you staying calm and handling frustration well, as they're more likely to do the same.
I will highlight the reasons for building a Strong Relationship. Spending good, quality time with your child helps them behave better. It doesn't have to be long, just regular. Bedtime can be a great time to talk and connect.
It is incredibly important to respond to their behaviour. When your child behaves well, it's important to let them know you noticed. Instead of just saying "good job," explain what you liked about their actions. Younger kids might like rewards like stickers, while older ones might prefer privileges like extra TV time.
If your child has ADHD or autism, I will be telling you why you might need to adjust your strategies. Keeping things consistent, using visuals, and breaking tasks into smaller steps to help them succeed.
So, let’s dive into today's episode and learn how to encourage positive behaviour in our kids!!
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