Ep. 9: Communicating With your Child (Managing behaviour series)

Today, we're diving into the fifth and final episode of our series on managing behaviour. It feels like we've been on this journey for quite some time, and maybe you feel the same way. As parents, we often find ourselves talking about our kids' behaviour, and that's just part of the deal.

But today, we're switching gears a bit. Instead of focusing solely on behaviour, I want to talk about effective communication. It's a skill that plays a crucial role in discipline, but it's different from managing behaviour. I often get questions from parents about how to communicate with their kids. They wonder how to respond when their children share their thoughts and feelings, and how to build a strong relationship. So, we’re going to discover my top five ideas in this area.

The first one is active listening. I will tell how it's all about truly focusing on what your child is saying without forming your own counterarguments in your head.

Next up is empathy. How does active listening help us uncover what our kids are thinking and feeling, and that allows us to empathise with them better.

Then there are "I statements." These are sentences that start with "I" and focus on your own feelings and experiences rather than blaming or criticising your child.

Problem-solving together is another crucial skill. Instead of just laying down the law, I will tell you how it's more effective to collaborate with your child, taking their opinions and feelings into account.

Lastly, I will talk about how patience is vital. Kids, especially younger ones, may struggle to express themselves clearly or regulate their emotions. Being patient and giving them the time they need to communicate can make a world of difference.

These skills can help you maintain a strong and positive relationship with your children. So, take a deep breath, let’s dive into today's episode and have a calm and productive week ahead.

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