Episode 28: Hold On To Your Kids: A book review

In today’s episode, are you ready to dive into the insightful world of "Hold on to Your Kids" by Gordon Newfield and Gabour Maté? As someone who enjoys reading two to three books a month, often opting for audiobooks during daily commutes, I stumbled upon this gem exploring the intricate dynamics of parenting, attachment, and the challenges parents might face when their children turn to peers for guidance instead of seeking it from them.

Have you considered the crucial role of maintaining a healthy attachment with your kids, positioning yourself as the primary influencer in their lives? How does the metaphorical expression "you can't feed somebody who is not at your table" resonate with you regarding the essentiality of a robust parent-child relationship in providing effective guidance?

Do you find yourself intrigued by the potential pitfalls discussed in the book when children seek emotional support, maturity, and guidance from their peers? Are you open to the idea that it's not about peers being negative influences but rather acknowledging their inherent limitations?

If you sense a shift in influence and connection with your child, have you thought about creating a "village of attachment figures" or incorporating daily gestures to reinforce your role as the anchor in their life? Do you resonate with the acknowledgment of fluctuating dynamics in parent-child relationships and the hope provided by proactive steps to strengthen the bond? Without any further ado, let’s dive into this episode.

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