Episode 28: Hold On To Your Kids: A book review

In today’s episode, are you ready to dive into the insightful world of Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté? As someone who enjoys reading two to three books a month—often opting for audiobooks during daily commutes—I recently came across this gem, which explores the intricate dynamics of parenting, attachment, and the challenges parents may face when their children turn to peers for guidance instead of seeking it from them.

Have you considered the crucial role of maintaining a healthy attachment with your children, positioning yourself as the primary influence in their lives? How does the metaphorical expression "you can’t feed someone who is not at your table" resonate with you in terms of the importance of a strong parent-child relationship in providing effective guidance?

Do you find yourself intrigued by the potential pitfalls discussed in the book when children seek emotional support, maturity, and direction from their peers? Are you open to the idea that it’s not about peers being negative influences, but rather about recognising their inherent limitations?

If you’ve noticed a shift in influence and connection with your child, have you thought about creating a village of attachment figures or incorporating daily gestures to reinforce your role as the anchor in their life? Do you resonate with the acknowledgement of changing dynamics in parent-child relationships and the hope offered by proactive steps to strengthen the bond?

Without further ado, let’s dive into this episode.

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