Episode 110: Differently Wired — 18 Tilts That Can Transform Parenting

In this episode, I dive into one of my favourite things—talking through a book that’s reshaped how I think about parenting. Today, I’m reviewing Differently Wired by Deborah Reber, a powerful blend of memoir, guide, and rallying cry for parents raising children who experience the world in unique ways—whether through ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, giftedness, or simply not fitting into the "typical" mould.

We explore Deborah’s 18 "tilts"—mindset shifts designed to help parents move away from trying to "fix" their kids and instead lean into who they truly are. These tilts aren’t rigid rules, but flexible perspectives you can adopt, adapt, or leave behind depending on what resonates for your family. From questioning traditional parenting advice, to letting go of judgment, to parenting from a place of possibility instead of fear, these ideas are all about matching your child’s needs with your parenting approach.

Along the way, I share my reflections as a parent and psychologist, especially on how these ideas translate (and sometimes don’t) into the Australian context. We’ll unpack big themes like acceptance, connection, advocacy, and self-care—plus why embracing your child’s timeline and strengths can transform family life.

Whether you’re raising a neurodivergent child or simply looking for fresh perspectives on parenting, this episode offers both encouragement and practical insights. Differently Wired reminds us that our children aren’t broken—they’re just wired differently—and it’s our job to parent them with curiosity, compassion, and confidence.

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